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Matt Williams спросил хороший вопрос о границах эга.

Будет границами эга, и когда вы знаете что вы пересекали их?

Здесь мой ответ, Matt.

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Учить о эге сразу отнесен к как мы общаемся. И общаться online монолитно, of course, к социальным средствам. Так я отвещу ваш вопрос о границы эга сперва, после этого говорю на sec о как то относит back to когда вы для того чтобы проверить твое в смысле социальных средств.

Во первых, в сторону:

Я желаю я открыло намного больше о эге более скоро чем я сделал, слишком. Фактическ я принимаю что задне, потому что я знал о вопросе эга, но после этого я препятствовал моему эгу держать меня от учить больше. Будет постоянн схваткой - но она одним что вы боретесь более менее с излишек временем.

В лубом случае, ответить ваш вопрос о границах эга - я буду никаким psychologist но здесь иду. Эго будет собственной личностью, котор мы думаем мы. Так эго, котор граница будет край той ложной собственной личности говорит нам, это мной, и все еще не мной.

Эго причины, котор границы важны потому что они обрамляют наше основное чувство реальности, и как мы играем игру жизни.

When you have an ego that is out of control, or that you overly identify with, you have a tendency to be hyper-protective and threatened by anything that breaches the boundary between the inner voice and the outside world. What we fail to realize is that that inner voice is not really you, but the fact that you think it is you gives it power to be the one running your life.

If you’re a person who feels helplessly under the control of certain emotions, or can’t seem to make certain good decisions even though on a conscious level you Know that what you’re about to do is bad for you, that’s a sign that your ego is in control.

When you have your ego under your control, you can master anything because you can operate beyond those specifications.

For example, “winning” the game of life for a person caught up in their ego is more about protecting and promoting the self we think we are, our egos. But when we understand that we’re not our egos, “winning” the game is about enhancing the life experience of our actual self, which by virtue of discovering the ego, we no longer see as separate from the rest of the world.

Therefore there is nothing to protect - because there is nothing to fear.

There’s nothing that is not under our control to some degree, and at the same time, because of that we don’t need the control. The point becomes experience and mastery, rather than protection of our false sense of identity security.

In social media, you don’t necessarily want to guard against crossing the ego boundary. A peaceful crossing is arguably a good thing. If you’re still in the early stages of dealing with your own ego or having trouble with it getting in the way of your higher purpose, then you want to properly manage it.

You can mostly tell when you’re being overprotective of your ego when you find yourself fighting with yourself over your new objective of being more sharing.

If you’re constantly thinking about whether or not you’ll get enough credit, or thinking it’s a waste of your time or resources to share items, or you become obsessed with when your contribution is going to come back to you in terms of traffic, chances are your ego is becoming a problem.

Now, the ego, in my opinion, isn’t to be completely conquered and decimated. There are good things about having an ego - we just need to stop Identifying the ego as our true selves. Then we stop putting our need to protect our ego above meeting objectives that are for our own good.

When using social media, we have a tendency to think more about how each action will directly result in traffic, rather than taking a long term view of how the situation will benefit us. It’s the reason why so many people only participate when it benefits them directly, or think it’s a waste of resources to cultivate relationships with others through sharing. That fear that what you put in won’t come back to you in some way is all ego.

If you’ve dealt with your ego, it doesn’t matter if it does or not. And, ironically, it increases the likelihood that your efforts will be rewarded with attention dramatically.

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June 28, 2008 | Filed Under increase web site traffic

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